Cyber Shower Party for Janice and Susan!
I’m so excited about the fun stuff going on over at 5 Minutes for Mom today. Happy Panda is throwing Janice and Susan a Cyber Baby Shower and everyone is invited to join in the fun. Be sure to visit 5 Minutes for Mom today for all the details.
And now, to continue with my entry for a chance to win some fun cyber show prizes:
A sympathy inducing delivery photo - Here is a photo of me right after delivery of Angel Girl. It’s not very pretty. I’m trying to look like I’m smiling through exhaustion, a sinus infection, head cold and viral pink eye in BOTH eyes. I was very VERY sick when I delivered her 5 months ago.
A Baby Bump Photo - Here, I am, on my due date with Obi-Wan. I didn’t know why I felt so miserable at the time, but there was 10 pounds of baby in there! He showed up three days late.
A Birth Story - Excerpts from a journal entry about the birth of Count Dooku
“Yesterday became one of the most momentous days of my life. I was awakened at 10:30 a.m. by a cramping sensation. I figured if I relieved myself it would go away. It did, but 10 minutes later it returned. I began timing the return of these sensations and realized I was in the early stage of labor.
…At around 1 pm my contractions started coming no longer than 5 minutes apart. I had a doctors appointment scheduled at 2p.m. so I called them and asked if they still wanted me to come in or just go to the hospital. They told me to get to the hospital.
When we got there they found me to be 3cm dialated. They had me walk the halls a bit to see if I would progress…
….The contractions were becoming much more intense. The pain was all in my hips, lower back and thighs. I felt that maybe I would get through labor naturally because though the contractions hurt, there were breaks between them. However, they continued to worsen and I began losing my composure. I had the shakes, my face was pale and I didn’t have the patience to listen to my husband trying to direct my breathing. I decided on getting an epidural…
…The epidural only numbed me on one side though, so I could still feel the contractions in my right hip…
Shortly after the epidural was given they found I had dialated to an 8. From there the contractions got even stronger. At 10p.m. the nurse checked me and sure enough I was dialated to a 10. So at 10:30 p.m. I began the fatiguing job of pushing. Though I could feel contractions on just one side, they became powerfully painful again. Luckily though, I was told to push through each contractions which made for good distraction….
….With just the first few pushes I brought the babies head down into view. The nurse said I was a great pusher. However for the next 2 hours there seemed to be no progress. At around 12:20 the Dr. said I would push for 25 more minutes and if nothing progressed, forceps would have to be used…
…around 12:45 when no progress had been made, forceps were inserted. And at 12:50 a.m. on January 25, our first child and son came into the world. The doctor spent the next 45 minutes sewing me up. I tore in about 4 different spots around the v*ginal wall and also tore end to end. It’s called a 4th degree tear, and I can say that recovery from that takes much longer than labor. I also broke my tailbone. Count Dooku’s head was 37 cm around.”
I spent the next 6 months sitting on one butt cheek wherever I went, and my scar tissue stung for 9 months afterward. Percoset was my best friend in the first month of recovery.
I wouldn’t wish a 4th degree tear on even my worst enemy.
Funny enough, my two additional children have both been over 10 pounds but I didn’t receive near the tearing with them that I did with my first and smallest. Count Dooku was 8 pounds 8 ounces at birth. Obi Wan was 10 pounds even and Angel Girl was 10 pounds 2 ounces.
Now, some additional fun Q&A’s:
What is your favorite children’s book? - Boy, this is tough, I have so many, but I really love Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs by Judy Barrett
What did you like the most/least about being pregnant? - I loved feeling the baby move and kick. There is no other feeling like it. I disliked pretty much everything else. I’m not a “glowing” pregnant woman. I feel worn down, exhausted and just generally crummy my entire pregnancy. I’m not one of those who really enjoys being pregnant.
You need to stop and smell the flowers and stop bashing yourself into a wall....
OWWWWW And this didn’t deterr you from having another??? How big was Angel Girl. . She looks huge!
a 10 lber??? OWW!!
OUCH! You make me squirm in my seat just reading about your tear… :S
big girl! i had a big one, too. 9 pounder. i “feel” your pain! LOL
YIKES…those are some big babies!!!
(here from 5MFM)
Oh my gosh, your pics. and your story. All I can say is OW.Good for you.
Wow, that really is similar to my first birthing experience too - weird! I’m sorry you had to go through the 4th degree tear thing too. My doctor was worried that Hannah might be bigger than Abby, so they induced me 10 days early because of the difficult first labor and delivery, but she only turned out to be 7 pounds 6 ounces - my smallest baby.
I love the photos! :)
I’m going to remember this the next time I feel sorry for myself.
Great entries! You’re bound to win something!
10lbs? Yikes!
Big babies hehe. My biggest was 8lbs 5oz. I couldn’t imagine 10lbs. Great baby bump.
You deserve a medal for that! You’re brave for sharing it too! Mine were 8 lbs 11 oz and 8 lbs 2 oz.
are you kidding me ??
2 10 lb babies..that jsut ain’t right !!
Great photos!
What a nightmare being so sick during your delivery. That is my worst nightmare!!! I hate being sick and the two should never go together.
I had some weird eye infection or allergic reaction at the hospital during Julia’s birth and it was sooooo frustrating. I could barely open my eyes… it was so weird. But I think it was an allergy thing b/c it eventually went away once I left the delivery room.
I saw your photo earlier today and my initial reaction was pain. LOL - I saw that baby and just said to Emily - “OUCH!” Thank you so much for participating in the shower and sharing your photos and story. Good Luck
I’m lucky mine were never that big!!
I’m keeping the baby themed posts going all week.. stop by and visit..
Sallie
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Wordpress thinks I’m spam…LOL… anyway, I’m glad mine were never 10 pounders!!
God bless,
Sallie
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Hi just cyber parting
you have big babies !!! :)
When I looked at the picture and your precious baby’s beautiful head I thought - Ouch! However, after reading the story I nearly passed out. It’s examples like this that really prove women are NOT the weaker sex. You rock!
Now that is what I call multi-tasking, what a hard delivery!
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