Don’t grow up too fast my darling

Angel Girl is now 5 1/2 months old. I can’t believe it.
I savored every second of her newborn age. I remember deeply inhaling her intoxicating newborn scent every time I held her close. I loved the feel of her floppy body, perfectly molded against my chest as she slept. I giggled at each grunt and squeak and toot she made as she awoke every morning, soaking her mattress in slobber as she desperately tried to latch onto her mattress.
And now all of that is gone.

Well, she still toots every morning while stretching. But the newborn smell is gone, she can push away from my chest when she doesn’t want to snuggle and she now wakes up quietly cooing to herself, amazed at each new day.
But though the newborn stage is gone, a new one has brought different joys.
I laugh whenever I see her pants on the floor, kicked off at some point while she was rolling around on the the carpet.
I beam with every attempt she makes to communicate with me. She stares intently into my eyes, slobbering as she babbles.
Her morning smile starts my day off happy every time, and I love that my attempts to tickle her are successful. There’s nothing like baby giggles.

I know soon enough she’ll be on to new things, and I’ll miss what she’s up to now.
Just the other morning as she greeted me for the day I picked her up and said, “You are heavier today!”
Though I said it with a smile, my heart felt a twinge of sadness and I found myself wishing I could will time to slow. I believe that concerning my children, I’ll be wondering for the rest of my life, “How did they grow up so fast?”

This post was written as part of Mama Blogga’s October Group Writing Project

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Comments (24)

cherylOctober 10th, 2007 at 1:24 am

Isn’t it funny how when they are sweet and cuddly we want to put it in a jar and save it, but when they are sassy and stinky, we want to hurry through it? Well, I know I feel that way a lot. :) They do grow up too fast. They really do.

ChristineOctober 10th, 2007 at 3:12 am

I was in awe of Lindsay the other day, she learned four new words in one day. It is truly amazing how fast they grow. It seems like yesterday she was taking her first steps, now she’s beginning to talk in sentences. My favorite thing is how they are in wonderment of the world and how they MUST explore every thing about it.
We definetly need to cherish every precious moment while they are so tiny, blink an eye and they are off to college.

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GraceOctober 10th, 2007 at 6:51 am

This is so sweet. I feel like I just gave birth yesterday and now my little one is almost 4. Kids grow up very fast and we need to savor each moment.

MeganOctober 10th, 2007 at 7:45 am

Too fast! Too fast . . . it really is. Everyone says it, but you just can’t believe how true it is until it’s your own that grows and changes so monumentally every day.

Love the stretch and toot. It’s one of my favorite things, too!

JaniceNWOctober 10th, 2007 at 2:31 pm

Yep, you blink and they’re 16. EEK! I’m glad you’re enjoying your baby girl so much. Do some belly smoochies for me!!! :)

anordinarymomOctober 11th, 2007 at 12:02 am

I feel the same way!

Jordan (MamaBlogga)October 11th, 2007 at 12:18 am

I remember those morning stretches. Hayden didn’t toot so much, but when he stretched, arching his back and pulling his knees up to his chest, he looked like a little kidney bean. I called him my little bean.

Oh, now you’re making be all baby hungry!

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tiffanyOctober 11th, 2007 at 5:19 am

Oh so adorable. I remember that stage and I miss it. You captured it so well.

UrsulaOctober 11th, 2007 at 8:36 am

I remember when Andrew turned 1 and I SOOOOO wished that I had the ability to turn back time. I miss the little guy who sat in the sling looking out at the world from the safety of mom, the little guy who loved snuggles or sleeping in the crook of my arm. But the great thing is that there are new things to enjoy on the horizon.

SummerM- Our Family VillageOctober 11th, 2007 at 10:34 am

Awww. :) I love the newborn stage, when they are so tiny and amazing. But each stage after that is amazing too.

KatrinaOctober 11th, 2007 at 1:20 pm

my little one is 5 months old now. I also have two three year old girls. As I sit and type this my five month old little girl is cooing and laughing and grunting and growling. Her face is completely wet with slobber and she is chewing on all her toys like they are giving her some sort of nutrition. It is sad that they have to grow up so fast. She pushes me away sometimes when I try to snuggle her into my body. Gone are the days where she didn’t care how I held her just as long as I was close. I love the gummy grin, but that too will soon be gone. I love my three year olds. They in themselves present a completely different stage. They are into everything, repeating everything I say(good and bad). They tell me they love me, and tell me some days that they like daddy more. They are completely their own little people. When I try to call my #1 daughter by her nick name which happens to be “Tooter” she looks at me and says”No mamma, I am Aislynn. Oh well, they can only be little for so long. I drink it in when I can. When I find myself thinking, uh I wish this day was over, I remember there will be a day when I wish it wasn’t.

JenniferOctober 11th, 2007 at 7:40 pm

I love that my girl is still a cuddler. LOL… That is what I thought while I read your post. I have friends with 2 year olds that don’t cuddle anymore like my girl does.

childlifeOctober 14th, 2007 at 5:57 pm

Oh me too! I want to just slowwww everything down and soak it up. I love those happy sad moments and I feel good inside knowing that I haven’t let them slip by without acknowledging how precious they are.

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thediaperdiariesOctober 15th, 2007 at 2:35 pm

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Mommy ZabsOctober 15th, 2007 at 5:48 pm

Awe so sweet! I love that toot when she stretches so part. so so funny.

phyllisOctober 15th, 2007 at 10:02 pm

what a sweet post. and congrats on winning!

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JessicaOctober 17th, 2007 at 9:42 am

Such a sweet post!

KurtNovember 10th, 2008 at 12:43 am

I Looked you guys up as I just put my 1o yr old son and 13 yr old daughter to bed and said prayers., and as I do most nights……cry myself to sleep as they awake each morning another day older. My Son ask’s only a few few questions anymore these days and my daughter ask even less. I loved those questions like, Daddy, who is stronger, “Superman or Hulk”..?.I would tell him they are tied because one can fly and one can jump relly high. It’s those stupid question adults laugh at and I ball up inside with so much love deeper and deeper because it shows their innocense. I say sunggle those little ones, change as many diapers as you can, there aren’t many after thet go off to college in about a years time. I miss my babies so much……I’m so sad ’cause now my daughter says boys like her and one of her friends smokes Pot. It just seems like two days ago I was buying her a bike with training wheels…..Daddy’s and Mommies, take more video than pictures if you can…Then you’ll have who they are and what they do at that particular time….God Bless you all and your Children..!!!! Make everyday count…!!

Daddy Kurt

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