And THAT, my dear, is why you’re you and why I am a Summer’s Nook junkie. You’re a delightfully unpredictable surprise. You make me laugh, cry, think. You are refreshingly transparent and you don’t put on an act for anyone. You put a smile in my day just because your you. Don’t worry about what all the other little chickies are doing, you don’t need to. Because you do you so well : ) I, for one LOVE your blog : )

The ’same’ all the time is over-rated. I don’t think any person is ever that. There are many facets to an individual, it’s just up to you which you’d like to share.

If it’s a business blog, then a focus becomes more advantageous… I guess you have to decide who you’re writing for.

Summer, I think everyone suffers from similar identity crises (well, a least I know I do). And I don’t think it’s a bad thing. It’s just part of life; we are constantly learning and growing and changing, and I don’t think all of that learning and growing and changing can happen without constantly changing emotions as well. It’s frustrating sometimes, but it’s also refreshing. I for one am grateful for all of the random and crazy and interesting different mes in my life, and I’m grateful that there’s someone out there (namely you) who has so many mes in her life too. :)

I like you Summer, just the way you are. (I sound like Mr. Rogers) I’ve felt the same way at times. I think all bloggers probably do. I also think Childlife said it well. Don’t worry about what other people are doing. What you’re doing works, because it’s from YOU.

Your blog doesn’t like me, because it won’t let me post comments!

I like you Summer, just the way you are! (I sound like Mr. Rogers, don’t I?) Seriously, I’ve had the same thoughts before. I think most bloggers have. I also think Childlife said it well: don’t worry about what other bloggers are doing. What you’re doing works, because it comes from YOU!

wow, the three girls before me said it. there’s nothing wrong with the ever changing ‘you’. i’m just sorry that you’re annoyed with it because it’s definitely something that should be embraced, because you have so much to offer. you’re awesome. p.s. i don’t feel like i’m one of those defined bloggers.

Life is a process. You are processing; just as you should. Thank you for sharing what happens to you as you process. I like your ability to express yourself. You have a gift. Your experiences and your expression of your experiences are for other people as well as for yourself. It may feel narcissistic to think that what one does is for the good of others but it is truth.

i think blogging is not supposed to be ANY pressure, it is fun, it is therapy, it is YOURS, it is ever changing, it is moody. Keep blogging please.

I’ll second all that’s been said. Sometimes I don’t feel like my blog is ‘funny’ enough or ‘grown-up’ enough, because I’m writing mainly to make myself feel better about my life and all the chaos I’m trying to unravel about it!

I write my blog because I need to get my thoughts out of my head, for fear of it exploding with all the chaos of raising children - screaming, crying, nonsense! I’ve got to have an adult thought once in a while. I blog because it’s more fun than just journaling - at least you can get some interaction with other intelligent, thinking adults, and get some feedback when needed.

I love your blog! And I like the ins and outs, the different thoughts of different days. It’s what makes things interesting! But do what YOU need, not what it ’seems’ like others are doing. Maybe they’re lost, too!! Maybe they’re just doing what they think everyone else will like to draw in readers. Personally, I’m not big on those blogs. I like to know that others are experiencing life, not just me.

You’re a wonderful writer, and your blog is great. :-)

Okay first, like everyone else commenting here, I have to say that I’m surprised you’re saying this and I have always loved your blog. It’s one of the few that I actually check during work because I just can’t wait to get home to read it during my personal time. I’ve always felt your blog does have a “category”. It’s a mom blog. And “mom” encompasses a lot of issues and moods.

With that said, I feel the exact way about my blog. I can’t even really call mine a mom blog because I don’t even tell kiddie stories. So “what is my blog” is something I’ve been pondering lately too.

I wonder if it’s like … butts in jeans. LOL. Remember in high school when us moms actually had time to go shopping with friends… and maybe you had a friend whose butt was the same size as yours… So you’d go into the dressing room together and try on one pair of jeans. You think they look great on her butt and dumb on yours, and she thinks they look awesome on you and horrible on her. HAHA… yeah, it’s like that…

I heart your blog. But I do understand, fully.

Was just looking at the 2007 weblog awards and there’s a category for “Best Diarist”. That’s what you are.

Wow, how did we both have blog identity crises at the same time? Was this sparked by our conversation from the other day? Well, however it was sparked, I needn’t think you should worry. Your category is: “Summer”, and personally, I ADORE that category.

I think that the variety of posts and the ‘window’ into your mind are one of the best things about your blog… No matter what you decide to write about - all of us are going to come here and read it because you do an amazing job of making us want to know more about you! :)

I agree with everyone else - your focus is ‘Summer’ and I love to read whatever you choose to write…

Summer, Please don’t stop blogging, even if you just slow down or take some time off or what ever. I love to read your blog because it makes me smile. You are a beautiful writer. I love that you write about everything. I think most mom’s feel like you do, like we have no identity, no consistancy. I love to read your thoughts because you make everyday moments beautiful. And I’m just starting to get to know you and I really like you so don’t quit yet! Just be you! We love you happy, sad, confused. Being a mom is hard and it helps to know that we have a support system of others who are having the same moments in life that we are. I hope you keep writing but definately do what is best for you!

I think we all feel that same way at times. I know my blog changes according to my moods and what dynamics are going on in our family.

You’re not alone, Summer. I feel the exact same way every time I sit down to type a blog post. My postings are “all over the place,” too. I guess it’s just part of my personality . . . short attention span, that’s me.

I enjoy your blog. Keep up the good work.

I think its nice to get a perspective on all the different parts of your personality! I think sometimes my blog is a little all over the place, too, but really, my mood changes, so my blog does too!

I think that is the reason I like your blog. It is different from the others and I like the variety. It is a blessing for you to be able to share all of your thoughts and moods through the written word. I am just getting to know you…don’t stop now :)

I’m the same… I go from one to the other… and who says you HAVE to be just one? I feel that all the things you read in my blog make up who I am. Sometimes I’m silly and funny, other times I’m retrospective and thoughtful… and then we have the rather obnoxious side of me. I don’t see why I can’t be all of them! We’re like puzzles…lots of pieces to make up a whole!

Oh, and I should give credit where credit is due… Kim, of Temorary Insanity, talked about being puzzles in a blog post one time… I would hate for you to think that I was that clever or creative ;)

I think that’s fine to write the way you are. This IS your style. You write in the mood you’re in for that day - the many sides to Summer. It doesn’t have to be just like everyone else’s who have a theme. I enjoy it!

Me, too, summer. Me, too. You don’t have to be one or the other or anything in between. Just be yourself, and we’ll take it all.

Summer, your blog is as unique as you are! Don’t change, a thing. :)

Summer, I too have often been troubled that there seems to be so many versions of “me”. But I concur and am comforted with all the things everyone has said. I guess that in the same way that the many facets of a diamond add to its brilliance and sparkle, we too have many facets that add to our own selves a brilliance and sparkle as well.

I like when posts shift from one emotion to another. I love the variety. I post mostly humorous posts, but on the weekends I try for more serious (sometimes). I think your posts are wonderful and your site is wonderful. I think that when you came at people from a lot of different points of view - they get to know you better in a lot of ways and at the same time - they might not feel like they know you at all - it’s cool!!! Have a good weekend Summer - see you later. Kellan

Different people have different purposes for blogging, the ones that focus on one area are the ones that are mainly interested in making money (like me! LOL). But is this blog for your readers or for you? I think a lot of bloggers have a hard time with this question. The truth is that whether you blog for an audience or for your sanity, there will be readers that will like what you have to say. You’re one Summer today and will be another Summer tomorrow, and we can all relate to that. And so we read.

I like the thoughtfulness of your posts, but it’s hard to be thoughtful all the time, I would guess.

ps–I tagged you for a meme, if you’d like to play along.

Summer, it’s because you have an artist heart. All artists go through periods of self definition. And that is GOOD! I would hate to have to only blog about the same thing all the time! I like that I never know what to get on your blogs! Mine is the same! Sometimes it’s a children update, sometimes thoughtful, sometimes funny (? maybe) and thats because thats who I really am! I am LOTS of things! My blog is LOTS of things! And you are a person who is interested in LOTS of things! So keep on keepin on! You’re doing great! I also would hate to feel like I had to blog everyday! Yuck! Sometimes you feel like you should write, so write, and other times, just live!

“But truth be told, I could be posting regularly if I really wanted too. And that got me to wondering why it is that I’m not all gung ho about posting anymore.”

Ditto.

I like your blog and your writing, there is a little bit of everything over here! Take a break when you want, write when you want, and just enjoy being you.