Dying to get my husband out of the house

I’m not the only one who has a social hermit for a husband right?

He always enjoys himself when he attends large gatherings and the like but I have to drag him along every time. So that is why I’m always eager to let him hang with someone doing something he enjoys when the invite comes along. Which isn’t very often. He doesn’t know any other guys out here well enough to just go and chill. He used to golf with one or two every couple weeks or so but they’ve since moved away. So you can imagine my delight when he got a call today from someone we know through church, asking him if he wanted to go fly fishing.
*I may or may not have discovered this person was a fly fisherman and practically begged asked him to invite my husband on an outing with him at least once.

Hubby was a huge fly fisherman back when we lived in Utah but he hasn’t gone out for 5 years now, what with work and family life being most important. But I know he wishes he could and really loves the sport.

So hubby timidly told me this person had left a message for him but that he wouldn’t call back if I didn’t want him to go. After all my mom is in town and I had planned for her to take a family picture of us at some flower gardens this afternoon.

Well forget that! We can go tomorrow!
I told him to hurry and call back. In the meantime I went looking for some of his fly fishing equipment that I was betting I had stored in different boxes in all different areas of the apartment. It only took a moment to find his fishing vest for him and he gathered the rest of his tools, including his rod. That was when he realized he didn’t see his reel and he had no idea where it was. Likely I had packed it away too but could I remember where? No, and his buddy would be here very soon.

So crazydear little wife that I am, I ransacked my house. Every place I thought it might be became an instant mess as I pulled out boxes, bags and the like. I tore apart our bedroom closet, the hallway closet, the entry way closet and the storage area beneath our bed in search of his reel so he could get out and do something he loved with somebody other than me.

In the end we couldn’t find it and his fishing buddy was waiting downstairs. Hubby glumly called him and informed him the reel was not to be found. But fishing buddy relayed the fact that he had an extra reel Hubby could use. Hooray!

As Hubby grabbed his stuff to run out the door I jokingly told him that he owed me big time. But all I really needed in return for my ransacking my house was given me at the door - a quick kiss and the happy look on his face as he walked out the door.

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Comments (17)

HollyMay 3rd, 2008 at 3:55 pm

What a good wife you are! I hope he has fun.

LeslieMay 3rd, 2008 at 5:12 pm

So sweet! It’s so nice when husbands and wives really love each other…

KimberlyMay 3rd, 2008 at 6:57 pm

I’ll bet that happy look made it all worth it!

BeckyMay 3rd, 2008 at 7:55 pm

I love love love the ending to your story. I can just picture his happy grin!

My dear husband, bless his heart…. I can’t remember the last time he went out with some friends for fun. You make me think I should start hunting down some fun time companions for him.

Richelle FMay 3rd, 2008 at 9:26 pm

All us girls in my ward get together all the time–every week for playgroup, monthly for book club, every once in a while for Enrichment, our husbands feel like they miss out. A couple months ago they had a “guys night out.” They met at a restaurant that has sports playing and serves bbq ribs and chicken and had a great time! It is really nice for them to be able to get out with some friends, too.

aubreyMay 3rd, 2008 at 11:27 pm

how fun for him..i love fly fishing! i hope he had a nice time!

JaniceNWMay 4th, 2008 at 12:42 am

I, too, have married a social hermit. So hard when I am outgoing.

You are a wonderful undetstanding wife Summer. God Bless You.

Hugs.

BeakersueMay 5th, 2008 at 11:00 am

It’s good to know I am not the only wife to drag her husband kicking and screaming to do something! Even with his own wife and children! The dumb thing is they usually have a good time once there there!

ChristineMay 5th, 2008 at 2:50 pm

One thing about my husband, he keeps himself busy. My brother on the other hand, it’s hard to get him out to do anything.

It is good for them to get out and have fun with their friends. Sounds like your husband will have a wonderful time.

ChildlifeMay 5th, 2008 at 11:26 pm

What a sweet post, Summer! My guy is the same way — I’ve been trying to convince him to go out fishing for weeks. Hope your guy had a great time!

loniMay 6th, 2008 at 9:58 am

Yup, can relate to ya there. I was really pleased when the elders started calling him to go on teaching with them!

Deb - Mom of 3 GirlsMay 6th, 2008 at 12:21 pm

Oh I hope he had a good time! Mine tends to be a homebody as well, but lately it’s more that he’s home so rarely because of his work schedule that we’re more than happy when he is. :)

AllysonMay 6th, 2008 at 3:55 pm

You’re such a sweet, loving wife. ;-)

kailaniMay 6th, 2008 at 5:10 pm

So what did you do with your quiet time? Hope it wasn’t spent cleaning up the mess! hee hee

anordinarymomMay 6th, 2008 at 5:56 pm

You are an incredibly loving and supportive wife! My DH tends to be a bit of a hermit, too.

BrilligMay 7th, 2008 at 2:32 am

Yeah, I married a hermit too. I totally get it. And you’re an awesome wife to encourage him to go play. Hope he had a great day! (And you too!)

LaurieMay 7th, 2008 at 5:50 pm

You are so sweet! I find myself having a hard time thinking that my husband needs more time away from us with friends and hobbies when he’s already gone all day working, but you’re right, it’s good for them. I hope he had a great time!

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